Ties That Stress: The New Family Imbalance

Ties That Stress The New Family Imbalance What has happened to the American family in the last few decades And what are these changes doing to our children A renowned child psychologist and author of several influential works on child develop

  • Title: Ties That Stress: The New Family Imbalance
  • Author: David Elkind
  • ISBN: 9780674891500
  • Page: 427
  • Format: Paperback
  • What has happened to the American family in the last few decades And what are these changes doing to our children A renowned child psychologist and author of several influential works on child development, David Elkind has devoted his career to these urgent questions This eloquent book the culmination of his inquiry puts together all the pieces, puzzling facts, andWhat has happened to the American family in the last few decades And what are these changes doing to our children A renowned child psychologist and author of several influential works on child development, David Elkind has devoted his career to these urgent questions This eloquent book the culmination of his inquiry puts together all the pieces, puzzling facts, and conflicting accounts, and shows us as never before what the American family has become Today s postmodern family is under enormous stress And as a result, the needs of hurried children have been sacrificed to the needs of their harried parents Childhood innocence has been supplanted by the illusion of childhood competence teenage immaturity has given way to pseudo sophistication and parental intuition has been traded in for a mechanical reliance on technique These changes and a host of others have undermined the well being of children and adolescents From Freud to Friedan to Foucault, Elkind traces the roots of the postmodern family back to the failure of the modern nuclear family and its supporting institutions the media, the so called helping professions, the legal system, and the schools to meet the needs of parents The new postmodern family is flexible, permeable, urbane, but also out of balance because it fails to meet the needs of children Treated like miniature adults, today s children and adolescents go without the protection and security they need, while their once sheltered baby boomer parents, facing new economic pressures for which they are unprepared, secretly wonder why they ve never really felt like grown ups But all is not bleak Elkind finds evidence of an emerging vitalfamily that melds the best of the modern and postmodern, one in which the needs of all family members are held in a dynamic, if delicate, balance Many books have decried the decline in family values, the negative impact of divorce, the increase in single mother families, and impov

    One thought on “Ties That Stress: The New Family Imbalance”

    1. Don't rush through this book. This book is a sociological/philosophical/developmental masterpiece. I like all of Elkind's writing, but this one especially tied EVERYTHING together for me from a historical/developmental perspective. If anyone can situate pre to post modernism within a family-system perspective, Elkind has done it here. It is so interesting and apropos. We like to think that parenting is instinctual, natural, above cultural constructs, but it is absolutely not. Loved this book and [...]

    2. Elkind is reknowned for his work in family systems. I used this book for one such course and found his views on topics that mostly are brushed under the rug: imbalance and the roots of "imperfect perfection" was quiet interesting.

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