"Excuse Me, But I Was Next...": How to Handle the Top 100 Manners Dilemmas

Excuse Me But I Was Next How to Handle the Top Manners Dilemmas Have you ever been annoyed by cell phone yakkers line cutters or movie chatterers Been confused about who pays at a restaurant Received a gift you hated Fumed over how to respond to a nosy question

  • Title: "Excuse Me, But I Was Next...": How to Handle the Top 100 Manners Dilemmas
  • Author: Peggy Post
  • ISBN: 9780060889166
  • Page: 221
  • Format: Hardcover
  • Have you ever been annoyed by cell phone yakkers, line cutters, or movie chatterers Been confused about who pays at a restaurant Received a gift you hated Fumed over how to respond to a nosy question America s etiquette expert Peggy Post comes to the rescue in this concise, readable handbook devoted to the top 100 etiquette issues everyone wonders about You ll learn Have you ever been annoyed by cell phone yakkers, line cutters, or movie chatterers Been confused about who pays at a restaurant Received a gift you hated Fumed over how to respond to a nosy question America s etiquette expert Peggy Post comes to the rescue in this concise, readable handbook devoted to the top 100 etiquette issues everyone wonders about You ll learn how to politely say no to difficult requests, how to introduce someone if you ve forgotten his or her name, how to perform damage control for e mail bloopers, and countless other strategies for handling life s awkward moments Additional highlights include Ten Conversational Blunders Five Introduction Goofs Top Dinner Table Manners Goofs Tipping Guidelines A Family Gathering Survival Guide How to Spot a Dud on the First Date Playdate Etiquette How to Be a Welcome Houseguest How to Simplify Gift Giving Dispelling Wedding Myths and much In Excuse Me, But I Was Next , Peggy Post distills the essence of etiquette for today s world into the perfect portable book.

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    1. The best thing about this book is the title. But it doesn't even deliver on its promise. My 100 year old etiquette book is more useful- and better written.

    2. A lot of this was common sense if you were raised properly. You just need to stop and think before you do something and really you should never ask a woman when she is due, ever, unless you have seen the sonogram. Save yourself the embarrassment! Many of the place settings and table items I was unaware of because I have never gone/hosted a formal dinner. I also have never been to a restaurant that has a "captain" who is the lead server of the night and probably never will as that kind of place m [...]

    3. At my stage in life this was not a particularly useful book since it covered a lot of issues about weddings, childrens' behaviors, etc. Some of the answers were embarrassingly obvious--like cover your mouth if you sneeze or cough at the dining table, get help if you're choking on a piece of food, and don't use dental floss at the table. On the other hand, she encourages writing thank you notes for wedding gifts within 3 months (I would have thought one month more appropriate, some of my friends [...]

    4. There's a story about Emily Post and table manners that people love to hear. While dining with a group of notable ladies, Emily was asked by one of them at the end of the meal: "Why Mrs. Post, do you know that you've been eating from my bread plate the entire meal?" Emily's reply? "Well! Isn't that just like me!" Not one to rise to rudeness, Emily's response also relayed her philosophy-that etiquette is based on the principles of honesty (with tact!), respect, and consideration. Etiquette is a c [...]

    5. I've read this book in spurts during quiet times at the reference desk and during short breaks at work. For that kind of in-between reading requiring little attention this book was ideal. Broken up into short chapters, each starting with a question-and-answer, Peggy Post's book is an easy way to learn the basics of etiquette, look up FAQs, and be reminded of specifics. Her advice is not complicated, mainly consisting of the refrain: be considerate of others.For a comprehensive guide to western e [...]

    6. I saw this book at an end cap at the library and it piqued my interest. For the most part, I thought the advice offered in the book was completely obvious. I kept expecting great pearls of wisdom and this book definitely didn't offer that. However, with the short easy chapters and the anticipation of what terrible things some people do right around the next page, I kept reading. I found it very easy to pick up and put down. I can’t say that I learned a whole bunch but I enjoyed it and it got m [...]

    7. Picked this up randomly from the library with the idea I needed some pithy or polite one-liners and strategies for navigating Sticky Situations. Also, I wasn't ready to switch to my kids with cancer fiction yet though I know the writing will be leap years ahead. A fair portion didn't seem applicable to life on the Left Coast but overall found it useful nonetheless. Also also, made me feel tons better about the fact that my future MIL arranged a bridal shower for me (I feared it was an etiquette [...]

    8. Surprisingly interesting even though it's about etiquette. (OK, who am I kidding -- I read advice columns too.) I did find it relatively up to date; it didn't have advice about eating french fries with a knife and fork or anything like that. I liked the underlying viewpoint: that etiquette is about being honest while also making others feel comfortable -- so don't lie when making excuses, but behave as the situation dictates and according to social norms, not according to possibly outdated rules [...]

    9. Eh, it was okay. Some useful suggestions sprinkled into the chapters, but on the whole it seemed like a bunch of miscellaneous manners advice was thrown every which way onto the pages, grouped loosely into very short chapters that didn't quite hang together. Also, at least one third of the pages were completely blank. If I'd paid for this book I'd feel ripped off. As it is, I'm taking it back to the library tomorrow, and moving on to something better.

    10. For someone who is always trying to improve herself, this book was a necessary stepping stone in the betterment of myself. This book points out dilemmas that I have been a part of and dilemmas that I hope to never see. It is nice to see that some people still care about etiquette and manners. Everyone who needs to download a little class needs to read this (and it's good for those of us who already have manners everyone can improve!).

    11. An interesting book with lots of good information on manners and etiquette, however it is by no means complete or comprehensive. This would be a good book to read when trying to learn more about manners, but it is definitely not a comprehensive reference book on manners or etiquette. (I didn't read this book cover to cover, just skimmed through it as I prepared to teach a group of teens a class on etiquette.)

    12. This book was filled with entertaining scenarios, some of which I hope I never encounter (writing scathing e-mail about boss and then sending to boss)and more importanty how to tip appropriately. Good manners never go out of style. If you have ever wanted to read people the riot act, you will find that it is not appropriate to point out peoples mistakes!~arrgh.

    13. This book spells out etiquette by answering questions about how to respond in situations that call for good manners. I realized upon reading this book that I have unknowingly committed many of the faux pas cited within. So, if you have ever inwardly shaken your head at my manners, know it was in ignorance. No longer. Now I will plead imperfection.:)

    14. In this etiquette guide, the Emily Post Institute gives advice on how to handle several situations politely from everyday life to special occasions.I needed something quick to listen to, so I picked this up. I consider a lot of the advice common sense, but there is a good deal of useful information that I will keep in mind as well. Overall, a helpful piece on manners.

    15. "Excuse Me, But I Was Next." by Peggy PostDoes it count as reading when you can skim a book in less than 3 hours? It was interesting but entirely predictable. All well and good to say the fall back position for a rude question is "Why do you ask?", but some really rude questions can't be answered that way. Most of this I already knew and the rest I'm not sure I agree with.

    16. A fun, quick read. Well organized and concise. I find etiquette books very enjoyable to read and interesting, as well as useful. Having read many, I appreciated this one as a modern addendum. It includes many situations that pertain to adults with and without children; i.e. dinner parties, some dating, fashion, etc.

    17. I liked it.I may be the untypical guy, but most of this seemed rather "common sense" to me. That doesn't mean I didn't like hearing some corroborating evidence, though! :) A couple of these were new to me and I can see this as a nice primer to a journey down etiquette lane.

    18. Hey! My etiquette isn't as bad as I feared even if I didn't know how to seat dignitaries at a dinner party. Now if only we could get this book into the hands of all those loud cell phone users and deli-counter line jumpers.

    19. Useful tips on how to deal with daily dilemmas such as when someone poses nosy questions, acts rudely; how to prepare for kids' play date or grown-up dinner at restaurant, how to give and receive condolences

    20. This is an okay book. It's a much shorter version of Emily Post's Etiquette. As in, most of the passages are verbatim out of that larger, more comprehensive book.It's treated as more of a question and answer format than a Compendium of All Etiquette that was the larger book.

    21. This book reminded me of the time I mistook an older sister for "the mom" when talking to a few customers at work. This is a quick fun review with the advice such as,putting off nosy questions with a laugh and complaining to mgmt instead of making a scene.

    22. I tend to be too nice to strangers and I picked this up in hopes of getting polite ways to be more assertive.I enjoyed it, skipping over a few chapters that weren't of interest to me, but laughing at some of the other situations (having been there).

    23. Don't know why, but I like reading etiquette books. I find them interesting, and I liked this one. It had lots of practical, every day dilemmas, apart from what fork to use with fish and all that fussy stuff.

    24. I enjoyed this for the light reading and reminders of etiquette. I especially enjoyed the chapter on cell phones. Apparently we really don't have a year to give a gift following a wedding. That's an urban myth. Also, apparently it's not best to ask a widow whether the spouse had life insurance!

    25. Mostly YAWN! First of all, this was an abridged book, which I don't normally read. I think I would have preferred much more humor rather than this typical by-the-book etiquette lesson. Helped the hours at work drone away.

    26. I loved the title of this book, that's why I picked it up. I found the advice rather outdated. I appreciated how the book was laid-out and the light humor throughout.

    27. Interesting, quick read. Lots of common sense items, but good reminders on things I don't remember as much as I should!

    28. This is a quick read with advice for a variety of social situations. I'll probably pick up a copy for my teen daughter. ;)

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