Shattered Dreams: God's Unexpected Pathway to Joy

Shattered Dreams God s Unexpected Pathway to Joy Learn how to look through life s tragedies and see the lavish blessings God has for you The Holy Spirit uses the pain of shattered dreams to help us discover our desire for God to help us begin dream

  • Title: Shattered Dreams: God's Unexpected Pathway to Joy
  • Author: Larry Crabb
  • ISBN: 9781578565061
  • Page: 306
  • Format: Paperback
  • Learn how to look through life s tragedies and see the lavish blessings God has for you The Holy Spirit uses the pain of shattered dreams to help us discover our desire for God, to help us begin dreaming the highest dream They are ordained opportunities for the Spirit first to awaken, then to satisfy our highest dream Dr Larry Crabb

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    1. This was exactly the right book at exactly the right time in my life. Shattered Dreams gave me permission to freely process the grief of realizing that God owes me nothing, in spite of the ubiquitous teaching that "if I do this, then God will (or has to) do that for me". Nowhere in Scripture does God promise to fix my life up the way I wanted-- therefore I don't have to feel guilty about bad things happening in my life. Not only am I not in control and may never understand, it's okay because a G [...]

    2. I found it mediocre at best. There were some reasonable thoughts - but they seemed obvious to me, (joy is not the same as happinessin points us to Christ because we need him most when we are hurtingc.), while other points seemed to complicate the thesis he was trying to prove. And my first problem is with his thesis: "Shattered Dreams are necessary for spiritual growth." I disagree. BROKENESS is the necessity for spiritual growtha broken and contrite heart. While a shattered dream MAY lead to br [...]

    3. We led a community group in our neighborhood. On September 17, 2007, a couple in our group lost their 11 month old baby in an accident at home. We grieved, we prayed, we celebrated life and then we listened as our group wanted to understand what had happened in relationship to God. So, we began a study of Dr. Larry Krabb's book Shattered Dreams. A roller coaster ride of emotion, enlightenment and human experience commenced and for almost three months we worked through understanding shattered dre [...]

    4. Who hasn't experienced shattered dreams - moments when our lives feel as if they are falling off their axis, spinning out of control, crashing down at our feet. Who hasn't found themselves devastated and broken, spilled out and hurting, desperate for restoration and redemtpion. What is happiness- True contentment - Security - Blessing? Where does one find these things in this broken and stained world filled with disappointments and heartaches?Larry Crabb bodly declares the compassion and immeasu [...]

    5. I received this book through LibraryThing's Early Reviewers program and I wasn't that excited. I find many Christian self-help books to be formulaic and oversimplified. Might I also point out that Christian self-help is a moronic classification since Christianity is all about Christ working in people unable to save themselves. So it was with great trepidation that I cracked open the cover and read the Author's Note and Introduction. "Not bad," I thought, "but I don't hold out much hope for the r [...]

    6. What I'm learning "Something bad happens. I hurt. I feel unhappy. I long to feel good. I ask God for help. I am resolved to feel better. I do whatever I can to make at least a few dreams come true. That is the way of the flesh. Something bad happens. I hurt. I feel unhappy. I long to feel good. But I trust God. His pleasure matters more than mine. But His pleasure includes mine. I believe that. So I abandon myself to His pleasure. I live to please Him. I work hard and live responsibly and strive [...]

    7. This book was a really interesting meditation on Naomi in the book of Ruth and the role of suffering in the Christian life. I enjoyed the parts about Ruth and Naomi the most, and appreciated the way the book rejected the notion that Christianity should bring wealth and comfort. The book also had intriguing thoughts about how one can strengthen a relationship with God even in suffering. I guess the three stars are because I find it difficult to praise suffering as much as the author seems to. I'm [...]

    8. We used this book in a Bible study. It was either loved or hated. I hated it.While reading the first chapter, it took everything in me not to throw that book across the room. Apparently the author has had problems with being angry with God and assumes his entire audience has suffered the same experience. I'm sure there are people that struggle with the issue, but not everyone.Throughout the entire book, there were things I disagreed with.I hated the book. If you ever struggled with being angry w [...]

    9. This book really challenged the way I pray and how I see the difficulties that our family faces. Finished it and then immediately read the whole book again and took notes.

    10. (Can I give a book 6 stars? If so, this one would have 6.)Generally, I'm not a Larry Crabb fan. But, like any believer does, his faith, through his personal experiences which have drawn Him closer to the Lord, have deepened and reshaped his understanding and given him deeper wisdom about the workings of God in our lives. From this vantagepoint, he writes this excellent book. What does it mean when your dreams - your GOOD dreams like a healthy marriage or a meaningful ministry - are shattered, an [...]

    11. I gave this book 5 stars because it was life changing. Embracing shattered dreams and all the grief and loss that comes along with that doesn't seem like the pathway to joy nor does culture see it that way. However, Larry Crab does a wonderful job at helping us see how these can indeed bring us to joy by drawing us nearer to God. I think everyone should read this book because we have all experienced suffering in our lives and need hope that there is more!

    12. This was an excellent book focusing on the book of Ruth. Highly recommend reading as it gives a great perspective and discussion on how facing challenges and pain can bring us into a closer relationship with our Heavenly Father if we are willing to allow ourselves to be vulnerable.

    13. Great book for thinking through deep Psalm-like pain, God, and man. It falls under seasonal literature in my opinion, as it spends most of its text on that first step of ascent - anthrocentric feeling. Read to the end and read with care as you move from pain to humility up the holy hill to deeper and richer desires of theocentric purposes.

    14. For anyone who is suffering loss of any kind - this book is truly a wonderful guide and is filled with so much truth. A paradigm changing book - God used this book to help me in a terribly difficult time in my life. I have recommended this book more than any other.

    15. 'Gebroken dromen’ wie heeft ze niet? Later als ik groot ben… vul zelf maar in. Maar zijn ze uitgekomen? Die plannen die je had? Die doelen die je voor jezelf voor ogen had?En nu? Welke wensen/dromen zijn er nu nog? Doe je aan plannen voor later? Als ik met pensioen ben dan… of als de kinderen groot zijn gaan we…Hoe vaak gebeurt het niet dat ziekte, een onverwachte wending roet in het eten gooit? Hoe kan God nou toestaan dat die overlijdt, of dat ik mijn baan verlies? Als er een God is, d [...]

    16. This book is absolutely awesome! I felt like it was written for me. I never had a book answer my questions and raise new ones so thoroughly. Sheds amazing light and new meaning on the book of Ruth.I have been in a period of disillusionment, wanting to know what God promises in the here and now. If you're wondering, "How do I find the faith that lets me see what is invisible, to passionately believe that He's always wonderfully and lovingly responsive when He seems so callous?," then this book is [...]

    17. I hated this book. He just says the same thing over and over. God shatters your dreams and you find something better, Joy. I don't feel his example of the story of Naomi and Ruth illustrates the point at all. God takes away her husband and son and then they are rescued by a rich relative and Ruth has children, etc. There is nothing in the story about their relationship with God. Yes they are both happy, they have been delivered from poverty. "Naomi has a son. They named him Obed. He was the fath [...]

    18. July 2015 Re-reading this great book! My copy.How did I bump into this book in the public library? I wasn't looking for it by the call number it must have been next to Francis Chan's Crazy Love, which was on my list of books to read, recommended by a friend.Larry Crabb is not new to me. He's a good author. I just haven't been reading self-help books of any kind for awhile. The timing of reading this book is incredible, a definite 'God Thing'. I could have written this book, if I knew how. This [...]

    19. This book is not for everybody. I believe one must be at a certain place in one's life in order to be able to appreciate it fully. I thought Crabb contradicted himself on a few points. For example, he poses a question, how do I trust and love an unresponsive God in the midst of unchanged circumstances? Later, the whole point of the book is that Naomi was bitter and angry at God, but then, after God moved, after Ruth took the initiative to go work in Boaz' field, she discovers her deeper desire, [...]

    20. Excellent material and clear delivery. In Shattered Dreams Dr. Crabb takes an in-depth look at the story of Ruth and Naomi, the blessing to be found in the pain of shattered dreams and the path to finding the fulfillment of our deepest desire, which is also God's highest gift.This is isn't some cold, academic delivery either. With honest questioning and personal example, Crabb answers the question, If you want to really discover all that God wants for your life, the best and most fulfilling drea [...]

    21. Possibly the best book I've read this year. I'd recommend it to anyone who is struggling with feeling like their dreams are out of reach, or are in the midst of feeling like a failure or dealing with lack of direction and satisfaction in their lives. It is a powerful reminder of the holiness and love of God that transcends any dreams we may have, and that our ultimate goal should be HIM not any dream, however "good." And perspective change to redirect our focus onto what He has for us with Him-- [...]

    22. "Learn hot to look through life's tragedies and see the blessings God has for you.""Shattered dreams are never random. They are always a pc of a larger puzzle, a chapter in a larger story." Didn't work for me in light of Jenn and Mike's suffering. It didn't give Satan credit for world's evils and sicknesses. Plowed through most of book, about 180 pages, but couldn't finish. And someone's going to teach on this in my Sunday school class? Please let me miss that class because I doubt I'll be able [...]

    23. Along w/ "A Grief Disguised" and "Plan B", one of the best books about loss and readjusting surrendering life goals and dreams to God's plan. My only criticism is that Larry Crabb has not experienced profound loss himself, and therefore still has to write somewhat in third person. He understands God extremely well, however, which makes the book well worth reading. I had to read a one of the "divorced Christian women" books immediately after, however, to not feel so alone in the loss that God has [...]

    24. Crabb asserts that if you long enough, all your dreams will be shattered, because our dreams are always to small. He wants to give us new, better dreams. These dreams are not necessarily easier or nicer. We live in a broken world so better sometimes looks hard and painful. I was reading this book as my wife was dieing from cancer. It gave me hope that the something good could come from the pain we were in the midst of and it was a good reminder of God's love and the importance of centering life [...]

    25. Good, but challenging book that helped my wife and I reconcile our belief in a loving God with our experience of going through 5 miscarriages. We read this book with a small group, and several people in our group did not like it at all because the author repeatedly says that the ONLY way to a deeper relationship with God is through suffering. I am not sure I entirely agree with that either, but since my wife and I definitely experienced what the author calls "shattered dreams" which made us ques [...]

    26. The influence of a book to me often is a matter of timing, and this book came at a key moment to give much needed perspective. Crabb's primary thesis, which gets repeated and reshaped throughout, is that encountering God is the most substantive thing we need in our lives. I know there has been a strong desire in me to just desire a pleasant and easy going life. I feel entitled. But God wants someone even better for me. And if I'm honest, i do want more of what he most wants to give -- himself.

    27. This is an excellent book in defining the benefits and reality of walking through the trials and disappointments in lives. Mr. Crabb uses Naomi's life story, from the bible, to explain what pain, disappointment, and hopelessness looks like. He challenges the readers to dream higher dreams than contentment, or being comfortable in this life. It is a book about freedom to move beyond one's circumstances and getting out of denial and self pleasure.

    28. This book was all right. It takes you through the story of Naomi and Ruth to relate your grief to theirs. It talks about how God shatters your dreams so that you can fully come to realize His love. This book is written for someone who is in complete grief mode, of which I am not. Because of that, I didn't get as much out of this book as I might in another situation, but I certainly took away some key concepts.

    29. I have passed by many books that have come my way. I feel that I was led to this one, and it was amazing. At least it was for me. I recognize that not everyone will find the value this books has to offer, that's true for any book. I'm grateful that this was given to me. It's given me a lot to think about and process. I will say that many parts of this seemed like he read my mind in some of the most difficult moments that I've experienced in my journey of seeking Him first.

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